Amrita Sharma, author of the book ÂTaken For a Metro RideÂ, talks about
several issues in her book, including mindfulness, living in the moment and the
value of sharing. But what her book highlights is mental health  an issue
which many in India still approach with an Ostrich mindset, by burying our head
in the sand and pretending it doesnÂt exist.
Excerpts from the interview:
What is the book
about?
My book ÂTaken For a Metro Ride is
about people, about life, about metro rides and also about issues we push under
the carpet. In my book, there are two protagonists  one is the girl through
whose experiences we learn about life and the other is the metro, which becomes
the stage where all different kinds of stories unravel.
Through this book – ÂTaken For a
Metro Ride  I wanted to integrate personal and impersonal, profound and
profane, obvious and the ambiguous, and take the readers on an extraordinary
journey, with the metro playing the supporting role in my protagonistÂs voyage
of self-discovery.
What
motivated you to write the book?
All of us travel to work
every day and most of us find it difficult to pass the time, especially if the
journey happens to be a long one. Most of us end up depending on books, mobile
or other gadgets to fill that time. I would do the same, till the time I
realised that my eyes got practically no screen break. ThatÂs when I started
observing people, listening to their conversations and sometimes just trying to
understand the diverse personality types through their varied behaviour
patterns. I realised to my surprise that everyone travelling in the metro was a
story  and that got me really interested. The book actually encapsulates all
those experiences and observations.
Your book
highlights the issue of mental health. Please tell us why
Believe it or not, I heard many
people talking amongst themselves in the metro how somebody in their family or
in their wider circle was Âdepressed and seeing counsellors and psychologists.
They would talk about it in hushed tones and refer to it as if it was some kind
of a curse or a contagious disease. That got me thinking. Today, in the
stressful life we all live in, depression and mental health are a reality and
we cannot hide from it. You never know, but someone in our extended family, our
neighbourhood, our wider circle could probably be struggling with it right now,
and is afraid to talk about it or seek help because of the stigma still
attached to it in India. When it comes to mental health, we seem to behave like
the ostrich, thinking that the problem will disappear if we bury our head in
the sand and not see it. That is why I decided to weave the issue into my story
 to create more awareness about it. Today, there is an urgent need to accept
that the issue of mental health exists and needs to be addressed, and that we
must empathise with those struggling with it.
What drew
you to the issue of mental health?
I have been a student of English
Literature from Lady Shri Ram College (LSR) in Delhi and many of the classics
introduced me to the workings of human minds and its underlying psychology. I
also read several books that touched upon the issue of mental health, including
Jane Eyre by Charlotte Bronte, Tender is the Night by F. Scott Fitzgerald,
Catcher in the Rye by J.D. Salinger and
of course Mrs. Dalloway by Virginia Woolf, to name a few. Some recent ones that
I read on the subject include The Perks of Being a Wallflower by Stephen
Chbosky and Veronika Decides to Die by Paulo Coelho. I really feel people
should read more on the issue so that they can understand what people with
mental health go through.
What would
you like to tell our readers?
I would like to tell them three simple things (a) learn to be present in the moment (b) be mindful and aware of people around you (c) nothing is more precious than your life and your health – both physical and mental. ThatÂs why itÂs absolutely okay to reach out when you think you need help.